Self-definition is gained through association with social groups, but is not achieved through
self-identification. By arguing this, the author puts forth an interesting puzzle concerning the
morphology of the root "self". Admittedly, being gregarious and pursing self-definition through
contact with outside group distinguishes us from other animals. We attend schools, we join parties,
we engage in a variety of volunteer activities-it is through such social activities that we gain
individual value and correctly locate ourselves. However, I argue that in many, even most,
circumstances social groups play a disappointing role in helping us to define ourselves. In extreme
circumstances, we may even be tossed about aimlessly in the turbulent ocean of society, deprived of
appropriate self-definition.